Magnolia Mamas

Monday, November 30, 2020
How To Host a Supper Club
Friday, November 13, 2020
Lordy Lordy Look Who's 40!
I turned 40 last week and I guess I'm now officially over the hill! For over a year now we had been planning a big trip to California with our friends to celebrate our 40th birthdays. We were going to do Napa for a few days and then golf and spa at Pebble Beach for a few days. Needless to say, thanks to Covid we cancelled those plans. It was going to be too difficult to get childcare for the kids because at the time we didn't even know if they would be back for face-to-face school and with all of the limitations it just made us lean towards to canceling.
However, it was certainly the most memorable birthday I have had in a long time. On my actual birthday I got surprised with balloons, champagne, gifts, and more.
It was a low-key day and I was home, in my pajamas, with wine in hand before 8 PM (which NEVER happens). We got takeout for dinner and just enjoyed a quiet night at home.
I got the sweetest note from my little guy and my favorite Halloween candy from the kids. People joke that this is the cast-off Halloween candy, but they are my favorites so it works out for everyone.
The next day some of my closest girlfriends planned a special lunch for me. They went above and beyond to help me celebrate.
Cards, balloons, cake, flowers...
A new pair of shoes will do you a world of good!
I was all excited to have that good fortune, because who doesn't love a new pair of shoes, but my friends were secretly kicking each other under the table because they had already planned my birthday gift and little did I know that the snuck that fortune off of my plate and put it in my birthday card.
Tuesday, November 10, 2020
Book Club: October
It's Book Club Day!!! How are we already almost half way through November? The first two weeks flew by and now we are looking at Christmas right around the corner. We definitely need to get on it when it comes to Christmas shopping, Christmas decorating, and just prepping for the holidays in general, but we'll worry about that later because day the talk is about books!
WHAT WE READ...
Cracked Kingdom, the final book in the Royals series, follows Hartley's story. After this one I might finally be able to get something else done in my life, but I have to finish it and see how things end!
I had Nicholas Sparks' newest book - The Return - ready to go for last month, but I just never picked it up. I'm going to try to dig into that one over Thanksgiving Break. Until then I'm going to try to keep it light I think. I have this Audible ready to go...
The Bookish Life of Nina Hill by Abbi Waxman. It was recommended to me and after reading the synopsis, and seeing the reviews, I went ahead and hit "download".
What have you been reading lately? Any recommendations for something we absolutely need to put on our reading list? Share with us!

Friday, October 30, 2020
A Spooky Charcuterie + Happy Everything
Monday, October 26, 2020
Join the Fur-Ever Bad Kitty Read-A-Long {Giveaway!}
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Thursday, October 22, 2020
Home Sweet New Home: One Year Update
It's been one year. ONE. I can't even believe I'm writing this - but it's been one year today since we purchased our new home.
We didn't really have a plan other than we knew we were going to renovate it, and it would be some time in 2020 when we moved. If you had told me on October 22, 2019 what the next year would have been like I would have laughed and laughed and laughed at you. Here's why...
New House Thought #1: The bulk of the renovations will be done by end of January, so we will move February Winter Break.
Reality: We moved in June. Into an unfinished house.
New House Thought #2: Our current home will sell quick. What will we do about the kids schools?
Reality: A major pandemic hits the world and we need not worry about things like schools.
Or homes selling too quick.
New House Thought #3: It will be so nice having a GC (that is not us) taking care of all the details.
Reality: "Hi. We're GC Mr. Magnolia, his assistant Jen, and our three tiny foreman. Welcome to our remodel!"
New House Thought #4: We can't wait to go pick out all the new shiny home things!
Reality: Is it available on Amazon? (See pandemic comment above.)
New House Thought #5: "Hey kids grab your masks! Mom's painting something."
Reality: "Hey kids grab your masks! Mom's talking to the contractors, picking out flooring, grabbing new towels at Target, standing in the driveway with the landscapers..."
In short, the things we were most stressed or worried about never came to fruition. Things we weren't even thinking about became the largest hurdles. However - and I'm in the minority of this thinking - I actually think the slower pace and limitations we faced actually made it a more enjoyable process.
2020 cut out a lot of extra in our lives for a few months. So that freed up a lot of time that Mr. Magnolia and I normally wouldn't have to concentrate on the remodel. Granted lead times, shipping times, and quarantines dragged out the process in some portions of the build (especially towards the end), but having the time to focus on it all made it less stressful.
It also gave us more time to stare at the house and add an extra project. Or ten.
All that extra free time allowed us to tackle projects we didn't think we would have time for until next year or the following.
So pandemic remodeling...honestly not that bad.
From start to finish, construction/remodeling took us about nine months. We still have a few small things to tweak and a few outdoor projects that seem to be dragging, but otherwise we're done!
Out of all of us, I was the most hesitant about moving and doing a major remodel. In the end, I think it was one of the best decisions we could have ever made. It was fun to do as a couple and as a family. It has been a dream to let our kids have so much space to run around and play. And it has been a much easier transition in terms of schools/activities/lifestyle than I could have ever planned.
I'll try to share some fun before and afters soon of all the different rooms. It's amazing how much some of the spaces have changed!
